Sorry have gone thru this a number of times - <.xml> looks perfect even when I check it - I even deleted refer to 3rd tab and 4th tab... and 95..ping in both hit appy save - still nothing - plus where is the refresh button - thank you for your help!! I'm seein just the two boxes with the X in them but they won't go away. Thank you!!
Now on iOS systems is not necessary to edit the xml code in order to add or delete tabs. In order to add/delete tabs please go to My Applications > App_name Dashboard > App Settings - Settings - General. Here you can set the number of tabs you want to have.